I can't stop thinking why people walk away...and yes it is not always our fault. Whatever we say and think I am the kind of person who thinks that some people must not leave from our lives! And when it comes to friendship, since it's something sacred and yet misunderstanding, friends should be here no matter how.
The problem is that we have learned over the years to give up. I'm sure that you have heard countless times that we should always try to do our best etc but in the undercover we have been programmed to give up. That's why a fight leads to separations and misbeliefs, that's why we look one person we lost contact with and the first thought that comes to our minds is always negative, that's why we react aggressively to the ones that really and deeply care about us. And somehow some of us are feeling alone....That's because the ones we are looking for have given up on us a long time ago.
Over time and experiences, real emotions and feelings generally fade out. People have stopped thinking about you, have stopped caring and staying up all night wondering if you are alright. I don't want too much, the little things make happy the ones that can appreciate them and give them the motive to do more. Don't be afraid to give... I'm sick of hearing the ones that do good deeds or have conciousness by their names ! They are example to all of us undoubtedly but we consider the most natural thing, a rare incident that has to be admired! This should be the rule not the excemption.
The short truth is that in our lives there is not only our job, money and having fun. It's also spiritual and inspiring relationships, a continuous inner search and appreciation. We are mathematically a part of an equation to our so called happiness, and we should let the others be in it. And remember when we think that we have done much is the time that we should do more.
C.K.
Inspired from this song :
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